This: “Survivors have often shared that they engaged fully with the psychopath-narcissist in sexual acts of deviancy in an effort to please the psychopath sexually. When the relationship ends, survivors experience tremendous feelings of shame and guilt. Seeing the sexual exploitation, they often connect this with a feeling of being raped. It’s my opinion that this is exactly what it is. The survivor is not aware of what the psychopath is doing, but the psychopath is.