“I used my desires for sex, alcohol and pleasure to get my basic instincts met to dominate and control. “Find, Feel, F…k, Forget” (Secrets of a Narcissist).
Narcissists are people who have no capacity to empathize and cannot feel your pain. They don’t care about the damage inflicted by their ruthless negligence and are clearly sadistic in their emotional abandonment of partners. Narcissists break hearts and humiliate partners to feel all powerful or punish for not getting the attention he or she craves. Uninterested in experiencing an intimate connection, many narcissists lead hidden sexual lives compulsively watching pornography, masturbating, having affairs and/or visiting prostitutes.
Narcissists draw hostages to them that are fearful of rejection and suffer with unhealed pain in childhood. A certain vulnerability or “woundedness” is appealing to them. Particularly vulnerable are those with absent fathers, angry mothers, or a history of abusive partners. Narcissists are selective vampires…
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