The three words ‘I love you’ are meant to be special, intimate. To the sociopath ‘I love you’ means something entirely different.
When you first meet the sociopath, he spends a lot of time, listening, reflecting, mirroring.
- Listening to what you say (to discover what your needs and wants are)
- Reflecting (Offering you back what you need and want)
- Mirroring (mirroring your body language, repeating back to you what you are saying, ‘active’ listening skills)
Love is a really important game to the sociopath in dating. Without love the sociopath loses their power.
A sociopath will constantly say ‘I love you’….. what this actually means is ‘do you love me’…. he is constantly checking whether you love him. He needs you to love him, as when you do, you are rendered ‘weak’
You are fooled into thinking this is a genuine love connection. The sociopath mirrors all of the reactions…
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